is it just me?
Hugs to all of us I think...xx |
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| No its not just you.
And sometimes I think I should just stay away from this thread too but you're right it can really help to know other people understand how bad it is. |
| I feel the same but everyone is so supportive and that helps I feel so sad because I have lost loved ones and know how much it hurts |
| We've all come to "know" each other's dogs, which is why it's so hard to read. But we've also all known how painful it is to lose one of our own and to have the comfort of our members is so very helpful. As much as it hurts, I'll continue to be there for people who are always there for me. |
Mim wrote: No its not just you.
And sometimes I think I should just stay away from this thread too but you're right it can really help to know other people understand how bad it is. I never felt more love and friendship as when Fergie died. I will never forget it. |
| I feel the same way, everyone helped me so much when Hershey died.
I feel that we all have a bond. My heart drops when I see a new post. I cry at work - people here (at work) don't understand. I don't know what I would do without you guys. Outside of my husband & my mom you guys are the only friends I have.  |
| Ditto when Kelsey went to the bridge the support from all here, no words can describe it but everyone understands what you are going through and I am so gratefull for this forum when we loose a beloved fur kid, not many understand if there not loved by a 4 legged so it is nice that we can post here as people are so supportive & understanding of the loss that inflicts our hearts.
When I lost peppa years ago, I did not know of this forum and at the time and the months and the year following I could of done to know about this forum and all the understanding/caring and supportive group that are here taking us through what has happened. So I thank all and so gratefull this is here even though I cry when I come into this section when there is a new post but it is nice to know everyone here understands and supports everyone when our babies cross the bridge. No where else is ther such a wonderfull and caring bunch of understanding folks.  And I am ever so gratefull to have you all here as cyber space best and wonderfull supportive friends at a time when some dont understand what you are going through. |
| No, its not just you.
But keep in the mind the kindness you do by posting and acknowleding someone's grief. It is so comforting to know that there are others who understand your love of your precious sheepie and understand the grief you feel. Kind words and thoughts make the loss easier to bear. |
| I joined this forum shortly after I lost Winston at the age of 4 1/2 to the Menu pet food poisioning. This family of sheepie lovers got me through it and waited and celebrated the arrival of Nigel 4 months later. I always dread checking the threads, but I want to be supportive to others going through the same thing. I can't even tell you how much it helped. |
| My heart gets caught in my throat everytime I read of any lovie passing. I may not always comment, but I pray for each loss we have. I, too, know the pain, having lost too many lovies of my own. |
| i hate this section; but I read it when I see that a "friend" has gone to the Bridge. Even though I haven't met 90% of you or your furry companions, its heart breaking when I read the entries here.
But I do read them. And I cry every time. |
I try to "avoid" this section as I start constantly crying, even if I never met the Sheepie or there owners!  I imagine it would have been my Sheepie and how I would feel
I am even more upset when the very young ones like Boo and Sancho die just far too early! It upsets me very much!! and I try to find the right words to comfort the family, which is not always very easy.
But as my Ellie died 2 years ago, even if I just joined the forum and nobody met or knew Ellie, we received a tremendoes feedback and it helped me a lot to come over it! Thanks to everyone on this board!! |
| no it's not just you....I can't really find myself lurking in the bridge section on this site because it reminds me of Kaluha whom I just lost in March. I'm welling up just thinking about it....so no, it's not just you. My heart sinks too seeing this.... |
| I have a confession to make, I deliberately don't post normally in here, as generally I am to welled up to type.
And additionally from the first time I started reading this section of the site, it had me worrying about what Archie will have to suffer through when his time comes. So superficially I tend to stick to lighter topics, yes it probably is selfish of me, but in honesty that is how I cope with it, so if you don't see me posting here it isn't because I don't care. |
we all know how you feel, I dread seeing a posting on this thread, but I now try to post something because it means a lot to folks at the time their pets cross over the Bridge. Its handy to have tissues close by though.  |
| Love and compassion for our babies and each others is what compells me to come to this section of the forum.
We ALL unite in grief, forever friends. Debsx |
| I try to avoid this section and the dogs in trouble section, just because I can't seem to make it through any of the threads without crying. |
| I have hardly ever looked at dogs in trouble thread...I darent. |
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