Well, bad news...
Just thought I'd tell everyone. I'm happy to have 2 healthy children though. Perfect timing for this since we have weekend guests about to ring the doorbell.   |
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| I'm so sorry
Are you sure? Have you been back to the dr? |
| Oh- I am so sorry. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. |
| I am so very sorry . Please do take care of yourself. |
| I'm so sorry to hear that
Can you send your guests out for the day/night? I'm sure they would understand.. |
| that is so sad, I am sorry. But, as you say you have 2 lovely healthy children and your body knows what it is doing...hugs to you all. |
| Oh no ....Iam so so sorry you poor thing, I wish there was something I could do.
Hang in there my thoughts are with you  |
| I am so sorry for your loss. |
| I think you should tell the guests to go away. I'm sorry you're going through this. |
| Im sorry (((Hugs))) |
| Mrs. J, I am so sorry! Hugs to you. You are in my thoughts and prayers. |
Oh, I am so sorry to hear this.  You are in our thoughts & prayers. |
| Oh, Mrs. J. I'm so sorry. I'd hoped the Doc. was wrong and things would be ok for the baby bean. Take care of yourself. ((((((0))))))
Susan |
| I'm really sorry to hear that. I don't know what else to say. |
| I am so sorry |
| Hope you get through this OK. AND yes you have 2 great children. It is GODS way of maybe taking a child he needs more |
| I am so very sorry for your loss. |
| Sorry to hear that. |
 What sad news. |
| So sorry, take good care of yourself though. |
| I am so sorry for your loss.
Glad you have two healthy shildren who needs you!:ghug: Take care and God bless you! |
| Awww, big hugs to you |
| I just don't know what to say besides I am so very sorry.
(((((hugs))))))) |
| So sorry to hear, you are so lucky & blessed to have two gorgeous kids already, my sis had a multitude of miscarriages and no luck having children at all. Thinking of you and sending love and hugs at this traumatic time. Don't know what to say as it is just so sad when it happens, your not on your own as it happen to many of us. Just know it is OK to grieve too for the loss and a perfectly normal emotion as well.
Hugs Mrs J. |
| Mrs. J...I am so sorry...please take it easy, take care of yourself...we are all here for you, praying for you. (hugs) |
| That is sad.
But aren't they a way of the body saying something isn't right with baby? It hurts now, but will save a lot of heartbreak and pain in the future. Hopefully this doesn't come across to cold? |
| sorry to hear about your loss. it's just not fair sometimes |
| I am so sorry
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| I am so very sorry. But you must believe, there is a reason for everything. Hug your boys, and thank G-d for them. When the time is right, you'll have another. Yes, a reason for everything that happens. |
| i hope you are ok!!
this brings a rush of feelings for me as it was only in july/aug last year i was in the same position. you will be ok, trust me! my little boy helped me get through tho he does not know why mummy was very upset and in hospital ( i had to have a D&C as i did not lose naturally) but i did have him and hubby to keep me going. i'm trying to smile at the momnet too as my SIL is due in a matter of days and my baby would have been only 2 weeks old now. but it does get easier, tho i personally struggled as i had waited a long time for that baby , but i have 16 weeks left till i finally get to bring our second baby home so nothing is impossible even if it feels it right now. you relationship with mr j is very strong and you have your wonderful little boys. tho it takes away the inocents and wonder of pregnancy the next time, it has made me value what i do have so very much more. take time to recover, do as your doctors say ( i did ) and tho your heart will alway be missing a tiny piece look to wonder of your familyto help you patch it. i'm so sorry love zoe and einy |
| Oh, Jo - I'm so very sorry for your loss. It's good to see you're looking at the bright side by saying you have lil J and Joshee, but please let yourself grieve as well. Hoping your company didn't stay, but if they did, hoping they can get you thru the first rough days. My thoughts and prayers are with you, and big hugs as well. |
| I'm really saddened to read this horrible news.
Please lean on Mr. J. and give your kids an extra hug for me. |
| I am so sorry.
I hope you and the family are getting through the weekend and this tough time. Hug your boys and let yourself heal. |
| I am sorry. |
| I am so sorry for your loss. |
| Your health is most important, Mrs. J. I am so sorry that you are having to go through this. I will keep you in my prayers. |
| I'm so very sorry.
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| I am sorry.
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| I'm so sorry to hear this.
Please know that you all are in my prayers too. |
| Mrs J, I am so sorry to hear that you are going through this. And you are right, you have two wonderful little boys. You never know, you may have another chance at later. But for the time being, you need to take care of your self.
Hugs and good thoughts going your direction... |
| I'm sorry to read this news. I doubt its of little comfort, but the words "everything happens for a reason" come to mind. We might not know why, and we might not understand, but perhaps its for the best. Our bodies often know things we do not; its possible that this difficulty now spared you from a greater one down the road. For now; try and look after yourself. Perhaps your house guests could be a welcome distraction? At the very least; they should go and fetch you ice cream.
Hugs to you and your family; my shaggy girls and I are wishing you health and happiness. |
| So sorry to hear this. My thoughts and prayers are with you. |
| Ugh I am so, so sorry
I've read all the replies and it reminded me what a wonderful forum this is. I guess many people go through this, that is no consolation I'm sure, but it seems you are certainly not alone. I can't imagine what you must be going through. My prayers are with you and your family |
| I am soooooooooooo sorry. |
| Oh no, I'm so sorry to hear this. Our thoughts and prayers are with you..... |
| I'm so sorry Ms J that you and your family are going through this. You will be dealing with grief over the loss of this angel and please know we're all here for you. Several years ago, I dealt with it myself and drove myself crazy with the question of "why". Now with clearer head I realized it was an act of nature and nothing that I personally did no matter how heartbreaking it was. Give yourself time to grieve and heal both your body and your spirit. Heaven has gained a little angel. Hugs to you.
Marianne |
| Oh, Jo, I'm so sorry |
| It just doesn't seem there's the right words to adequately express how everyone is feeling at a time like this. I'm so sorry for your loss. |
| Mrs J.,
I am so so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Kim |
| I am so verry sorry Mrs. J |
| Mrs. J
How are you? You have been in our thoughts and prayers. Hope you are ok |
| So sorry. I have been there too and I hope you feel ok soon. The hormones seem to be the worst after this. Please take care of yourself. |
Hint of Mischief wrote: I've read all the replies and it reminded me what a wonderful forum this is. I
I agree that sometimes the last people you want too involve at times is family. I hope yours are supportive of you. But sometimes they try to say the right thing, but turns out being the wrong thing. I got more encouragement from my friends with my son's prematurity than all the stupid things my family said to me, trying to make right. So nice of all the folks here in this forum to lend support! I just needed an, "Oh I am so sorry." Not loads and loads of crap. |
| Thanks everyone. I do love this board because there is always support and friends to talk to!
My guests were coming for mr. j's grandma's funeral and some had traveled 12 hrs so there was no turning back or turning down watching the nieces/nephews while they attended... I think it made it worse b/c we have a lot of "experts" in the family. They kept telling me the amount of blood and lack of clots indicated placenta previa or other things and that was just annoying me. I couldn't walk anywhere w/o one of them whispering something new to me. I think moms "know," and I know what has (or about to) happened. I know our family was just is concerned and care, so I tried to keep that in the back of my mind. My doctor said we'll just schedule a d&C some time this week b/c she's sure my instinct is correct. |
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| Thinking of you. So sorry Mrs. J |
| I'm so sorry Mrs. J. I know how irritating it can be to talk about it with others. It took me quite a while before I was ready to discuss it, even with those who really cared. Just take some time to yourself and know that you'll have good days and bad. |
| Oh no. I am so very sorry. |
| so very sorry |
| Hoping you stay healthy while handling this sad event. |
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