I need help with Abby!
 I have my stomach in knots thinking about when the baby starts to crawl and walk and a accident might happen. |
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| I spent many sleepless nights about 30 years ago. I had 2 spoilt rotten yorkshire terriers and I was scared stiff the baby would grab them or hurt them and they would bite him. No problem when the baby came I just took things really slowly and they accepted the baby(ies). I always taught my children to respect the dogs. |
Quote: She does have resource guarding issues with her food bowl and certain toys, but the other dog just know to let her alone when she has something.
We've taught all of our children the same thing with our dogs. Each of our OES have had different temperments. Chelsea, being deaf, was a major concern for us. She startled easily and was more unsure of children (regardless of age) than adults. As children came into the picture, we always made sure that the children knew that they did not play with the dog toys and that they are never allowed to be near the dog while eating their food or even a treat. As they've gotten older they are allowed to feed or deliver treats with supervision. We have found that teaching children to respect the dogs and their space, toys and food makes for a happier household. Good luck! |
| First of all, let me congratulate you on the pending arrival of your first grandchild! You are one lucky grandparent-to-be!
No matter how calm and laid back the dog, no one should ever leave a small child alone with any dog (or other animal) and we should always, always watch interactions between children and animals. Be cautious/careful with all of your dogs. You are wise to be aware that Abi might have issues, but it is also possible the others could as well. The key is not to react in fear, but to thoughtfully try to avoid situations that might trigger aggression/guarding. I agree that it is important (and the right thing to do) to teach children to respect dogs as living beings with feelings and to stay away from food and toys. That said, I have to say that all of my OES have absolutely adored children of all ages. I have been amazed at how they have all geared their behavior/activity level to what they see appropriate for the age and size of the child. Exception to this is that I have to have a firm grip on leashes if a cookie-covered toddler in a stroller stops by so mom can goo over the dogs: they are only too happy to help the child finish off any left over cookie, and do all the face washing, too. |
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