It is time. . . (Chumley)
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| Strength.
Love. {{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}} for both of you. You have been a good, loving friend to Chumley. Now it is time for her to make that journey we all must make. She knows you love her. Kiss her for me. |
It's not surprising at all many of us have tears now for your Chumley. Your dog definitely touched as all as we read all about her journey through all the aches and pains.  I'm so sorry Valerie and do wish you all the hugs and strength you need. |
I'm so sorry that you have to make this choice, Val but at least you know you've gone above and beyond everything you could do for her. I think it's one of the hardest things that we ever have to do in deciding "the time." You've given her a wonderful life with a quality that she wouldn't have experienced without you. I know you'll miss her but you're doing the right thing for her.
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ButtersStotch wrote: I'm so sorry that you have to make this choice, Val but at least you know you've gone above and beyond everything you could do for her. I think it's one of the hardest things that we ever have to do in deciding "the time." You've given her a wonderful life with a quality that she wouldn't have experienced without you. I know you'll miss her but you're doing the right thing for her.
Sending you hugs too Val  |
| I'm so sorry you have to make this decision for Chumley.
But remember that this is an act of love and compassion. Wishing you strength and peace.
Godspeed sweet Chumley. |
| It is the most unselfish act that you can do to ease her gently towards the Rainbow Bridge. You must be strong for her sake and because you love her so much. Hugs to you, and soft kisses for Chum... |
| Thoughts, hugs, and all of our support will be with you and Chumely.
I have been where you are and know how heartbreaking this is. I am so sorry. |
| Val and Chum,
I type through tears for both of you. I know that this is one of the hardest decisions you will ever have to be faced with. Just know that you did everything you could for her. You have gone above and beyond what most people would have done to give her comfort in these last years. Please give her a hug for me and a kiss from Pud. You will both be in my prayers as you make this difficult journey. Find comfort in knowing that she will once again be pain free at the Bridge, awaiting the arrival of Maggie and you some day. |
| I'm sorry to hear this Val, you are doing the right thing. |
| Val, I too am typing through tears. You know how we always said Chum and Drez were twins because of how much they look alike. She was such a sweet girl when we met up at the dog park in Philly - just wanting a little treat and that extra ear rub.
I have always been in awe of the love and care you have given Chumley to help her through her very difficult medical problems. She knows how much you love her, friend. Facing the same dilemma with Drez right now, I know how hard it is to make that decision. I wish you strength and the realization that, as you said, it is time. |
| Val,
You have given Chumley an incredible life, the best care and more love than most dogs will ever know. She has been blessed to have spent the time with you that she has. I know you will miss her but you have such wonderful memories to hang on to and the knowledge that you made such a difference in her life. Most of us will never have that opportunity. Know that as you cry we are all crying with you. We share your pain just as we shared your battle to get and keep her healthy. Stay strong and know that even to the end the choices you make for her are all about and for her. We will miss the old girl |
| Val, be strong for Chum. And we'll be strong for you.
Hugs and prayers sent to you and the girls. |
| Val--
I'm so sorry! You're doing the right thing and Chum has had such an amazing life with you, and a much longer one than she would have had otherwise. Few people would have been able to nurse her back to health from her earlier struggles. I'll be thinking of you and Chum and Maggie... |
| This is the hardest thing we do for our beloved sheepies. It is also one of the most unselfish things we do. |
barney1 wrote: Val--
I'm so sorry! You're doing the right thing and Chum has had such an amazing life with you, and a much longer one than she would have had otherwise. Few people would have been able to nurse her back to health from her earlier struggles. I'll be thinking of you and Chum and Maggie... Ditto! Wishing you lots of strength!!!
Please give some kisses and hugs to Chummie from me and the furkids. |
| I am so sorry. |
| Val,
I am so so so sorry. You will find your stregnth! Chumley has had a fantastic and adventurous life with you, remember that! Bless that sweet little barky girl.... xo, darcy |
| We're thinking of you and Chum. She beat the odds so many times, she is such a special dog and she lived a great life with you, we hope you can find strength in that! |
| Val,
Where do I begin.... I think back to the spring of last year when I first posted here. I was looking for answers for Max after his spinal surgery, and I found you and Chumley and all of the great people on this 'Family Forum". You were such an inspiration to me, and Chumley's journey gave us hope that Max would walk again. Max is walking - and we credit your suggestions and Chumley's determination for helping us get him there. I am always in awe of the way you care for your girls. Even with her special needs, Chumley has had the best life she could have, and that is because of your love and devotion. I look at Chum as Max's hero, and you are mine. Mushy as it sounds, Chums life has had purpose. Her story has helped many. I will forever be greatful for you and for Chumley. As this dear girl crosses the bridge, she will be welcomed and respected by all that went before her. Please know we are thinking of you, Lori, John and Maxie Paws |
| Val,
I am so sorry to hear that Chum's time is here. You are making the right decision for her...and being so selfless is very brave of you. Chumley will leave this world in the comfort of know she is loved by the best mommy in the world. |
| So sorry to hear that you guys are at this point. Give Chumley a big hug (or a little one, whichever is more comfortable) and let her know that we are all thinking of her and hope that her pain is eased.
Remember, it's all about her and we are thinking of you both! |
| Tell Chummie that her Uncle Ronnie loves her.
I  Chummie
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| I am so sorry to hear that you must say goodbye to your darling Chumley. But, when our Ranger was so ill, the look in his eyes seemed to say, "Can I go now?" It was difficult, but the time had come for us to release him from his pain. My signature says how I feels about dogs, hugs to you and soft kisses to Chumley. |
| I am so sorry Val...
Chummie you have been a wonderful girl |
| This is just the final act in all the wonderful care you have given her.
Abuckie wrote: As this dear girl crosses the bridge, she will be welcomed and respected by all that went before her.
I agree. We are here for you and will be thinking of you. Hugs from me and Harry. |
| So very sorry.
I'm learning from everyone here and learning how to say goodbye is something I will need a lot of help with. Hugs to everyone |
| Val, Each of us knows exactly how you feel. I had to help my beloved Tyler over the bridge and it nearly broke my heart. I've had a little over 2 years to heal and now I remember him as he was when he was running around and being the funny fur boy I will always love.
I would give anything to have more time with him now, but when the decision had to be made, it had to be made for him, and for his benifit, not mine. It will hurt like hell, you will question if you did the right thing, you will cry and ask why. You and I gave our fur kids the best possible lives, they were loved, secure, warm, fed and adored. We can do no less than help them across the bridge to a place where there is no more pain. Try to remember that it is for him not for you and you will do the right thing at the right time. Chum is a lucky girl to have a mom like you and she knows it. Best wishes and hugs to you both. Leslie |
| This is the last thing you will do for your beloved dog. She has depended on you to make the right decisions for her. We all know how hard it is to say good bye to unconditional love. My thoughts are with you and beautiful Chummie. She has had a good life with you and you will have wonderful memories. I hope it is those memories that help you get through this very sad time.
Cindy Guinness, Bailey and Jack |
| I'm sorry Val
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| Sending you hugs.
Be strong |
| The best thing that ever happened in Chumley's life was being adopted by you. Thanks to your love and care, she's traveled the country, enjoyed one adventure after another, met countless people and dogs and touched more lives than most would ever dream possible. She's had a remarkable journey thanks to you.
Time and again you've gone above and beyond the call to nurse her back to health. Now, as her time to cross the bridge is here, she'll draw her strength and comfort from your love. I wish you strength to help you through this difficult time and solace in knowing you've been the best mom she could've ever had and knowing that you gave her all you could give. My thoughts are with you both. |
| Val
I am so sorry.... |
| Wishing you strength and sending love and blessings for you all.
Tell chum she is loved by many people from around the world and will leave us all with such special memories
Love to you all at this difficult and sad time. |
Oh Val, there are no words. I will always remember Chum running for the car and being so happy to finally get there.  She has had a wonderful 2nd life thanks to you and she has loved you for it.
Tell her I love her and that there are so many folks out there who feel the same. She has been a part of ALL our lives... Jil |
| Val, I am so sorry that Chumley's time has come. You are doing the right thing even though it is so painful for you. Will all admire you for the love and life you have given dear sweet Chums. She will have a lot to tell her friends across the bridge as she runs free.
Hugs from Hannah Rose and me. |
| Val, my heart go out to you and Chumley. It really is the best thing you can do for her now that she is so frail. You have given her so much. Thank you for being so faithful to her. |
| So sorry for your pain...so hard to face. When our wonderful vet told us the heavy breathing from our beloved Daisy meant she was in constant pain we knew what we had to do but it wasn't any easier. I do believe she will wait for you and be by your side eternally...love never dies. Will say special prayers for you. |
| I'm so sorry Val, you have given her a wonderful life these last few years. I hope you can find comfort in knowing how happy she has been with all of your love and care. |
| Oh the stories she'll tell while waiting for you at the bridge!
She'll trot up alongside of Jake and they'll compare cross-country trip stories. Maybe she'll even tell him of a few places where she found his pmail waiting for her! Then they'll go off on a romp together, enjoying their revitalized spirits. |
| She's gone. It is so hard to believe. She was so uncomfortable. Even though she had some joyful moments toward the end, it wasn't enough to make up for all the discomfort, pain, and confusion. Her breathing was so shallow and she would flinch when touched. I could not bear to see her get worse. I spent the whole day with her in the back of the car, parked on the street. She mostly slept. She didn't even bark at the fedex truck. She did manage to lick the dogwalker (who came to say goodbye) and my BF (who came to give me support) but she would not let Maggie come near her. She even licked the Vet before he gave her the shot. It was really really hard to say goodbye. I miss her already and am so sad that her joyful, loving spirit is no longer here to win our hearts. I know I did the right thing for her but it is really hard for me to accept that she's not here to beam love at me anymore. |
| I am so sorry Val!
Sweet Chumley is now at peace. Free of pain and young again. |
Valerie wrote: She's gone. It is so hard to believe. I miss her already and am so sad that her joyful, loving spirit is no longer here to win our hearts. I know I did the right thing for her but it is really hard for me to accept that she's not here to beam love at me anymore.
Val she will always be there beaming love from above down on you and Maggie, her spirit lives on forever and she will always be your special guardian Angel. I weep for you all, I know how hard it is and know we will be thinking of you all. Bless darling Chum, she endeared herself to us all and she has given us all wonderfull memories that will flow of her courage, adventures, barks in the car, smiling beaming face and just who she was Chumley loved by many. Huge hugs |
| I'm so very sorry Val
I know how hard it was to let go, but you really did the best thing for her. It was the last gift you could give her, and the strength it took to give that to dear Chum was indomitable, as was Chum's courage and spirit through life. |
| Oh Val, I feel so sad for you.
I just logged on, and have read your initial post, then though this evening to tell us that Chum is gone. Chewie, Simon and all the dogs here send best wishes to Chum on her journey. You have helped her out whenever she has needed it. Lucky Chummie, to be adopted by you. Thanks to you, she had a wonderful 2nd half of her life. |
| Through the tears as I type I find it so hard knowing she is gone. Chum touched so many of our lives and it is because of your wonderful heart, Val. You gave her such a great life with her travels and your dedication to her. My heart breaks for you. Chummie will forever be remember as one of the truly great sheepies that touched so many of our lives. She is now truly at peace and free to run really fast when someone mentions the word cookie or treat. My prayers and heart are with you. |
| I can't add anything to what the others have said...........you have done well by her and she by you......but the road does end. Thank you for giving her such a full life, far more than anyone else would have done.
Don't dwell on these end times, try to find all those happy times. susan |
| I can't express my sadness at seeing Chummie posted under this topic. My heart goes out for you; you're not alone in your grief. Everyone that knew Chummie loved her.
Meeting Chummie last year at Sheepiepalooza was really an honor. I'll never forget her colorful cloth muzzle that was supposed to keep her from barking in the car... but didn't quite do the job. She reminded me of my Maggie McGee IV because of that. I've never known anyone who has doted on their pets like you. It doesn't seem long ago that there was the scare of cancer in Chummie leg and concern for amputating it. You didn't give up, just kept looking for another explanation. She had a wonderful life and you gave each other the best that you had. Rest peacefully, sweet Chummie. Big hugs to you, Val.
Nita |
| Val: I am so sorry that our beautiful Chumley has left us. She will be missed by everyone, even my hubby and daughter remember me talking about her when you made your cross country trip. They said to tell you how sorry they are to hear that she had to go to sleep for now....
My thoughts are with you during this very difficult time. Rest in peace sweet sheepie girl! Tears, |
| Please know we are thinking of you. Your girl was a dear, and will always hold a special place in our hearts.
Hugs, Lori |
| Val,
Wynette just told me....so sorry
I know my beloved Winston (CH Wooly Wits Counting Sheep) is there to show Chum the way. Romping and playing while they wait for us.
from Joe, the Mafia, and Rodney (Hot Rod) |
| I am so sorry to hear about Chumley and my thoughts are with you during this hard time. |
| I'm so sorrry about Chumley's passing. Even though i lurk more than post, reading about Chumley's journey helped me cope with Tony's recent diagnosis.
May Chumley's spirit shine within you. |
| I am so sorry Val...
I didnt know Chum but, I can see through all your posts the love you two shared. I know this is a hard time but, please know Chumley is still very near walking on silent paws to watch over you.
You will be in our thoughts |
| Val, I'm so sorry Chum's journey has ended. I'm glad for both of you that you were the last face she saw, her loving mom. It took courage and love to let her go, which you have in abundance
Holly |
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| Val, she's still beaming love at you. She's just gone to where you don't see her with your eyes anymore. But that doesn't mean she's gone. She'll always be in your heart. And you, in hers. |
| Val, I am so sorry to read that Chum has gone on her final journey to the Bridge.
Her pain is now over, but yours will be overwhelming and all consuming. Thank you for loving her and caring for her and having the strength to help her cross over. I pray that the happy memories of Chum return to your family soon to help ease the pain. Hugs to you and your family from Sue, Summer and Tilly. xx |
| There is nothing I can say that hasn't already been said!
You made a hard decision which we all dread having to make, but we know when the time comes we make it for all the right reasons. I hope the happy memories in time erase the pain you are feeling now. With hugs and best wishes |
| Val,
My heart sank when I logged on and saw the black banner. I knew instantly who and what but still didn't want to accept it. I am so sorry. Chumley, our fat bottom girl, what a gal!! Hugs & tears, Ginny Tasker and TY |
Valerie wrote: ......My only delay at this point is because I don't want to part with her -- or at least my memory of how she used to be. It is not how she is now. Wish me strength. . .
Val, I'm so sorry for your loss!!!
I think our beloved pets are what gives us the strength in the end. Though our hearts are breaking and we can hardly see through the tears, they reach out to us through that 'look they in their eyes' that seems to say, "Its okay. I love you Mum! Its okay!" And as they fall into the deep sleep of death, their last breath echoes a sigh of relief, "Thank you, Mum." Go with God Chum. Rest in peace! |
| my thoughts are with you |
| Val,
I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful Chum, I find it very difficult to express how I feel at these times, but know that I am thinking of you and Maggie. Chum was one lucky girl, there is no doubt about that. Hugs Brenda Dudley and Murph |
| Val, I'm so sorry.
Kristine |
| Val, you have shared all Chum's adventures with us, and in your travels she got to meet many of us here. We all feel this loss so deeply because she was such a special girl. Your dedication to her health and well being was second to none, and she knew that.
I know your heart hurts right now, and I pray that the hurt will soon be replaced by the many wonderful memories of her and her adventures. Extra hugs and rubs to Maggie, too, for the loss of her "sister."  |
| Val, I'm so sorry for your loss
My thoughts are with you. Rest in peace Chum. |
| She will be missed by all of us. She was quite a gal and she made a huge impact in all our lives. I wish you a healing balm for your spirit. |
| I hated to log on this morning and see the black screen, I knew what it was for.
I am so sorry about Chum. It was such a honor to meet her last year. I think she stole a piece of everyone's heart that met, and she will be fondly remembered. You were so lucky to have her, and she was so lucky to have you. I am so sorry for your loss. We are here for you, as we all grieve with you. |
| Val, I am so, so sorry. Chumley was a special girl and you gave her an amazing life. Hugs to you, Sue |
| Val...we will all mis Chum!!! Our deepest sympathies...this is never an easy time! |
| Val, I'm so sorry for your loss. Chumley was a great girl. Try and enjoy all the great memories. |
| Oh Val, I'm so, so sorry. |
| I am new to the forum and I am truly sorry I never had the opportunity to met Chumley. From your posts, she sounds like an absolutely wonderful girl. I am so sorry for your loss. You are a good Mom and did what was right for her. She will always love you for that. |
| Val....
I was so sorry to hear about Chum.. I know her and my Millie and all the rest of our furbabies, are running and jumping and wreaking havoc at Rainbow Bridge as we speak.. and, I would like to believe, that every once in a while, they stop their play to look down on us and smile that sheepie/ beardie smile just to warm our hearts and let us know they are happily waiting to be reunited one day ........ |
| All our hugs and prayers to you. |
| Val,
I'm so sorry to hear about Chum. She was lucky to have such a loving family to watch over her and care for her. |
| Val -
I am soooo sorry at the loss of your sweet Chumley. She was such a fighter for her whole life, a fighter with HUGE amounts of love. We will all be here to help uphold her wonderful memory. You were the best thing that EVER could have happened to her. |
| We are sorry to hear of Chumley's passing. Our thoughts are with your family. You did the un-selfish thing and the right thing. All our love |
| Val,
i dont think there are words that i can give you to offer comfort. i will never forget your trip here with her. You carrying her from the car to the backyard, to the dining room, back to the yard etc...she was just an amazing girl. you are amazing for taking such loving care of her. you did good as hard as it seems....and chumley will ALWAYS beam down on you. |
| Oh Val,
I'm very sorry you lost Chumley. I don't believe that our hearts ever really recover from these loses. So, I hope your fond memories and kindness you both shared helps you through this time. I don't believe that anyone has done more for their companion than you have done. The most important thing you were able to do when she needed you most was end her suffering. Most of us know how difficult this is and my heart goes out to you and all of the others who have faced it. Big Hugs, Zach |
| I'm very sorry for your loss. |
| I've been reading through all the posts with tears in my eyes. Your kindness, support, and shared memories mean so much to me. I am so grateful to have this place to share all of the adventures in the life of dear Chumley. And I am so glad that Chum made so many friends here. I wish she could have enjoyed more peace towards the end and more happy days. But I am going to try and find solace in the wonderful, sweet, funny times we did share. She had a huge and overflowing heart and I will always be grateful to have been loved by her.
Thanks so much to everyone for the wonderful words of support and commisseration. It helps tremendously. |
| My heart breaks for you, I'm at work and saw the black background and knew something terrible happened to Chumley.
I want you to know that you and Chummie were one of the biggest reasons I joined this forum, I would read your stories and you and her were such an inspiration to me. I know I don't know you but as tears roll down my face I want you to know how much I feel for you. I am so so sorry |
| Val,
My heart is overflowing with sympathy for your lose of such a wonderful girl. I was so please to see that Ron has truly honored Chumley's legacy and wonderful life with a green banner to note her passing. It shows she hasn't left completely, just that her lively spirit will live on and fond memories will grow in everyones heart as time moves on. Godspeed Ms. Chumley! Good times at the bridge! |
| I am very sorry for your loss. big hugs |
Sheeps over Aces wrote: I was so please to see that Ron has truly honored Chumley's legacy and wonderful life with a green banner to note her passing. It shows she hasn't left completely, just that her lively spirit will live on and fond memories will grow in everyones heart as time moves on.
Me too! I really love the positive message it sends. Chumley has truly been honored by Ron and everyone here and I am deeply appreciative. |
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hugs to you in your time of loss.............. |
| Oh Val, everytime I read what someone writes I just cry and cry. THis is so sad, but it is true she isn't suffering anymore. I just wish you didn't have to suffer with a broken heart. |
| Deepest sympathy to you on losing Chummie. |
| I wish I could say something to make the pain go away but I know there is nothing. Thank you for being such a wonderful friend to Chumley and being there for her when she needed you most. It is the hardest decision any of us have to make but now she is free from pain and will always be looking down on you - maybe she has met up with my Daisy and they are sharing stories from 'accross the pond' together.
Hugs to you and Maggie - give her an extra cuddle from me and Poppy x |
| I am so sorry Val. Chumley was an amazing dog, and you were so lucky to have found each other. She will be missed.
Laurie and Oscar |
| Hey Val.....this one is for you, Maggie, Chum and her legacy. ... I'd like the memory of me to be a happy one. I'd like to leave an afterglow of smiles when life is done. I'd like to leave an echo whispering softly down the ways, Of happy times and laughing times and bright and sunny days. I'd like the tears of those who grieve, to dry before the sun. Of happy memories that I leave, When life is done. They always seem to take a part of us with them, but she will always be with you. You were a great Mom and Maggie and great sister to her while she was here. Take good care. Jack |
| So sorry for your loss
Maggie will be your strength and you hers take care sharon & oliver |
| I may not know you or Chumley, but I feel your pain.
I am sorry for your loss. I have been there before and can still remember the pain in my chest as I would come home from work only to realize that Simon would not be there. I hope your good memories of Chumley will help ease the sorrow. |
| Val ~
I have been away from the forum for a while now but I try and pop in every day and do a quick read to make sure everyone is doing good, well ~ I just seen this and cant stop crying . I am so sorry .My heart goes out to you ............ Chum was loved by everyone here ,and always will be. We will miss you sweet Chumley . Valerie wrote: she's not here to beam love at me anymore.
She will Always Beam Love at you Val , just now it is from above . Antoinette |
| Val,
I didn't have internet connections for the past several days and I'm saddened to be reading the post that beautiful Chumley has gone to the bridge.
I am crying with you and for you. Others have said it in their post - no furkid could have asked for a better mom that you. I was always amazed by the love, care and devotion you gave to you. You truly did go to the end of the earth to make it better for her. I'm so sorry for your loss. RIP sweet Chumley and may you now be running free at the Bridge. You will be missed by all. Marianne |
| Dear Val, I am so sorry to hear about Chumley's passing. I hope you find peace in knowing that now she can run pain free along side all the other beloved pets that have passed. That her sweet, kind loving heart will always run free while loving memories stay with you forever. My thoughts and prayers are with you. |
| Oh Val Nothing I say will make the pain better, but I want you to know how much we think about you every single day. You, Chum and Maggie are the very first forum people and sheepies that I met face to face and in a different state! Thank you for sharing your stories and love with us! Here's to you Chum! |
| Oh Val, I am so deeply sorry for the passing of your sweet Chumley. I loved hearing about all of your adventures. You took INCREDIBLE care of her, and I know Chumley knew that also. It is very hard to make the decision, we had to put down our Blue dog on Apr. 18th, he was 14, and it still hurts so much, BUT all the kindness and love I received on this forum has made it bearable. Your heart will stop hurting, but it will take time, and time takes time. I know of nothing I could say to make you stop hurting, I wish I did. Just remember you have all of us here to get you through this. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time, and you did make the right decision as we did for our Blue. hugs |
| I am typing this through tears.
I am so sorry for your loss. I know you will miss her presence every day. She will be with you in spirit always. |
| Val, I'm so sorry |
Valerie wrote: She's gone. It is so hard to believe.
So sorry about Chumley - it is so sad to see our best friends in this condition. Our dogs depend on us not only in life but also in death. Chumley had a wonderful and loving life, something you should feel good about. |
| Val, in sharing the aventures of Chumley, you have allowed us all to enjoy her delight in the world around her and life. You did an amazing job of improving the quality of her life - just think of the wonderful trip she was able to take. And watching her rehab - an inspiration to us all.
The only thing left for you to do was allow her to go instead of see her suffer. Once again you made the best choice, really the only choice, for her. what a wonderful friend she has had in you. We are all grieving with you as it is never easy. |
| I am sorry to hear it. The adventures with Chumley were some of the first sheepdog postings that my husband and I remember about when we reading the forum. |
| Val,
The one thing I kept reading over and over on all of the posts was the word LOVE. You know, it is such an overwhelming emotion that truly can conquer all. There are so many things that love can do. It can change a person's life in a heartbeat regardless of any consequence whether good or bad. The one thing no one can ever change or take away from you is the undeniable love you and Chumley both had for/with each other. That bond that tranfers from human to companion, regardless......that unspoken bond that brings out the best and most genuine spirit in people and companion alike. You will ALWAYS have that love, forever. It will never fade away or disipate. I'm not ashamed to say I'm sitting here crying while I'm typing this. To read the posts and see how everyone is so very compassionate and understanding because it's a road most of us have been on at one point, is humbling. It is never easy to go through something this difficult. You know that you will always have friends, love, comfort and support here on oes.org. This is the one outlet where people from all over the world share the love and admiration of OES. I am very sorry Val. Chumley was loved and IS loved....always. She unknowingly carved her little name in your heart and it's there with you every day. Heaven just got a little brighter with her there.
Michelina~ |
Val, Chumley touched many people that you will never know. Yesterday I was telling my Phase III class that Chumley was gone, many of them were in class when she was at the vet hospital and I would click on the computer to watch her in her cabin or during PT. They would watch her with me, especially when she was on the treadmill (I guess they could relate, they were on a treadmill and so was she  ). They felt like they knew her too and send their hugs and sympathy. |
| Val, we are so sorry to hear the news about Chumley.
She was such a special sheepie and you shared so much together. And you both shared your journey with us, we are honored to have you give us pictures and journals of your time together. Big hugs to you Val, Chum had a live of love and fun because of all you did for her. When the medical issues surfaced you eased her journey with great care and love. Our sympathy to you......... |
| Val,
No words that I say will make things better or make you feel better. I saw the green banner and my heart sank and the tears started. I've started three sentences and erased them all knowing no words to express my sorrow. We are here for you... |
| Val, I'm so sorry about Chum. Thanks for all the Chum stories, travels and tibulations...
You and yours are in our hearts and our prayers |
| Sending you ((((((((((((((((((Hugs))))))))))))))))) Val. |
| I am so very sorry Val. Chum was very special and i sure enjoyed meeting her that day......
She will hold a special place in not only your heart but for a lot of people as well. Ali & the furr kids of Gwynedd |
| We all know how hard it is to come to that point with a love that is so special. Although our pain of loss is nothing compared to yours, please know that we respect your pain and the large hole in your life. Each of our loves are once in a life time experince. I hope that this knowledge and your wonderful memories will help thorough this time. |
| So sorry, you are brave and loving. |
| So sorry Val, it is the hardest thing to do but the kindest. |
| Val i,m so sorry for your loss of dear brave chum i'm at a loss of what to say apartfrom oyur in my thoughts and prayers. |
| Thank you everyone! I really appreciate the support and kindness. I am amazed and delighted to hear from the many people who cared about Chumley. Like all of our sheepies, she was a wonderful creature and I really miss her smiling face. I was so in awe of the life force that she exhibited under the worst possible circumstances. I do think it was the right time -- I am just sad she had to go at all.
On the positive front (is it ok to admit there is a positive side?) it has really changed Maggie's life. Maggie has always been reactive and barky in the house -- listening for noises, charging the windows -- and almost instantly with Chum's passing, Maggie is now quiet and calm. It is like all the tension is gone. I hadn't even realized what an impact dealing with Chum's challenges was having on Maggie. Maggie is basking in being only dog and spends huge amounts of time smiling at me and my BF, offering her paw, rolling around with her stuffies, and settling in to snuggle. I am glad that relieving Chum from distress gives Maggie a chance to live with less stress too. Now I will actually have time to start taking pictures of her again. It had just been so hard, so time consuming with Chum that I wasn't really able to enjoy the time with Maggie. I think having just one dog will be good for both of us. |
Valerie wrote: .......On the positive front (is it ok to admit there is a positive side?) it has really changed Maggie's life. Maggie has always been reactive and barky in the house -- listening for noises, charging the windows ----
Yes, it's ok to admit there's a positive side. While mourning the loss of our babies, we quickly forget that 'the positive side' is why we made that difficult decision to let them go. As soon as we make the decision that the time has come, we begin grieving and quickly loose focus of the positive through our tears. Its wonderful that Maggie has somewhat lessened your agony. Sounds like Maggie was very protective of Chum, and loved her very much! Now she doesn't have to divide her loyalty, she can devote it all to you. That has to be a lot less stressful on her. I'm sure she misses her very much, but unlike some of us, she's not lost sight of the positive, and its wonderful that she's able to share that with you!!! |
| Wow..I have missed a lot. I am so saddened to see that Chumley has left us. She will truly be missed. Val, my prayers are with you. |
| This thread made me cry.
I am so sorry for your loss. It is such a hard decision and the rought emty time after. I lost me beloved Aurora a year a go, she ate near to nothing the last week and my little Sancho ate half of what he needed and he became very quiet. The day after Aurora was put to sleep, he ate like a "tiger" and jumped around like a youngster should. Both Aurora and Sancho was reliefed from her suffering and pain. Warmest wishes to you in this rough time! |
| the hardest thing you will have to do...our thoughts are with you |
| It's so hard to believe that she's gone. I'm deeply sorry! |
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