Is it to soon to get a new pup?
I have not said this but she is the one who pulled me off the front step and lost my balance, fell and fractured my left hip. Thank God Madeline was there to call 911. I have not seen Darcy since that night. It was my choice. Now I find myself longing for a new pup. Is it to soon?. I now can walk on my own in the house but use a cane outside. I don't miss Darcy. We never could bond but I was the love again of a pup. I promise I will listen to all of you. Deana |
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| I think, if I were in your position, I'd consider an older dog, that has maybe settled down a bit and will be easier for someone in your state to handle. We all know your heart is in the right place, but finding the dog best suited to your lifestyle is always the tricky part! |
| You have adopted resues in the past....my advise for you is to go in that direction...you have a big heart and many of the older OES need someone like you. Puppies are a handful to say the least. I hope you heal up quickly. |
| I agree with those above, adoption of a settled sheepie might be best for you. Even us youngters have problems with the pulling of a pup..that would be me! |
| D,
Id have to agree with everyone. I know you LOVE the idea of a puppy, but with that hip of yours, an older dog (maybe 2 or so) who is at least trained in the basics, is a better idea. We dont want you to take another tumble... I know this has been hard on you. It takes a strong woman to acknowledge that she may have taken a bit too much to handle.... Youre a good woman D! Listen to your head, not your heart regarding a puppy.... 
xo, me |
| I would think that will all the problems and issues you have posted in the past year it might be a good idea to take a break and let things settle for awhile and then consider an older rescue or perhaps retired dog from a breeder. It may also be that a much smaller breed of dog would be more appropriate. |
| D,
I know you said to me you were considering getting a small dog. If that is still the case then sure, I think you can handle an ankle biter pup. Personally though, I would not want to have to housebreak any dog during the winter. As far as another OES puppy I am going to say no. I agree with what others have said. Maybe another rescue or older dog that is not so rambunctious. I am not saying this to be mean. I am saying this because of what you went through with Darcy pup. Most healthy, normal OES are rambunctious puppies... (I would hate to see you get hurt again.) Obviously that was not the case with Fergie, but you have to remember she was a very sick puppy. |
| I agree with Ginny. You should take care of yourself first, make sure you heal fully and can handle another dog with no problem. I also agree that it should be an older rescue dog. But be careful! Even a 2-3 yr old dog can be rambunctious!
We're always here for you, Deana!  |
| If you're looking for a sheepie, I would be looking for a rescue at least 5 years old and with excellent temperament, hips and health. |
Ron wrote: If you're looking for a sheepie, I would be looking for a rescue at least 5 years old and with excellent temperament, hips and health.
This is just what I was thinking. Last summer we adopted Lacy - 5 yo and is absolutely perfect and I believe could be handled by anybody (including one recovering from hip surgery). On the other hand, I'm puppy-sitting Leo (11 month old) right now, and OY! No way could a smaller person especially with any sort of mobility issue in the world handle him. His new mama and daddy can't get home quick enough in my opinion! |
| My honest opinion is that you really should wait awhile, and then consider an older dog. I have 2 6 m/o boys and even though they are good, they are a handful. You say you are longing for a puppy, is that truly a valid reason? A puppy, any puppy, will not be so different than Darcy was. I urge you to step back and really think long and hard before you jump in again. |
| This has been bothering me for the last 24 hours, I even woke at 3AM thinking about it. I don't know you and only know what you posted about the situation. My intent is not to be harsh but you asked the question so I feel I need to give you my honest opinion, which is based on what you have posted over the last months.
How could you even consider a puppy now? What would make this puppy any different than Darcy? By all accounts Darcy was a normal rambunctious sheepie puppy, not a bad dog with behavioral problems. If you were unable to handle her what makes you think another puppy would be diffferent? EVERYONE loves puppies and wants one. I would love a puppy. But with an aging sheepie and my busy schedule it would be absurd. Can you look at your own situation and honestly say there would be anything different this time than last time? I do apologize for being so blunt but I think everyone else is saying basically the same thing. |
| Would it be possible to volunteer in the puppy section of a shelter? That way you can get your puppy fix, but don't have to take it home with you!
I definitely think you should at least allow yourself to heal fully before you start thinking about getting another dog, puppy or adult. Even Barney, who is very mellow by sheepie standards and is now over 3, still has his moments of sheer madness where he could easily knock me over. |
barney1 wrote: Would it be possible to volunteer in the puppy section of a shelter? That way you can get your puppy fix, but don't have to take it home with you!
What a great idea! |
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