My Step Dad passed away last week

I wasn't going to post about this but since we ended up leaving town for so long I can see I missed responding to many posts I would have normally responded to and don't think I'll be able to catch up.


My Step Dad passed away last week and we took a road trip to another state with Hannah and Copper. The people they usually stay with were out of town themselves and it was better Hannah and Copper went with us. They were a great comfort to their Grandma and us as well. Very fitting they would be there since they were dearly loved by my Step Dad.

Even though my Step Dad entered my life when I was an adult he nonetheless made a big impact on my life. He had been ill with many health problems for some time but it was actually a shock when he passed peacefully in his sleep with a big smile on his face. We are all very sad.

It's funny how you don't realize sometimes how much you care about someone. I am lucky that I have no regrets because we are very vocal with our feelings in our family so he knew we cared deeply for him. But I'm finding out I am much more upset than I thought I would be and how big a gap he has left in our lives.

It's really shaken me up not to take anything or any one for granted.

Looking forward to catching up with all of your news on the forum.
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I'm so sorry :(
I'm very sorry for your loss. :(

My dad remarried when I was 13, and I understand how stepfamily can become members of your real family. I'm glad he passed peacefully. Hope you find lots of comfort from the forum and your dogs.

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I am soo sorry to hear about your stepdad. Its amazing how certain people impact our lives more than other...no matter at what age you meet them. Reflect and remember the good times. Im sure you had many. Lean on your family and like you told me....Im here whenever you need me :D
My symapthy. My Grandma always says- It's not the blood that run through your veins- but the love that's in your heart that makes a family.
Treasure the memories.

Take care,
Lori
Sorry to hear of your loss. Your family will be in my prayers.
Im so sorry. :ghug:
I am very sorry for your loss. But glad he went peacefully.
Your family will be in my thoughts.
:ghug: Sorry to hear of your loss, bless your step dad and you will all be in our thoughts at this sad time. :ghug:
I'm sorry to hear of his passing. What a special guy he must have been. To step into a step dad's shoes must not have been an easy thing. Although you were an adult when it happened, the fact he made such an impact on you speaks loud - he must have been a wonderful person. I'm sorry for your loss.

Marianne
Oh, I'm so sorry LVSL. I hope Copper and Hannah were able to lighten things up and help everyone through.
Sorry to hear about the loss of your step dad. I've only had a step dad for 5 years now and I've gotten pretty attached to him as well. A person doesn't have to be a blood relative to be family.
I'm sorry for you and your familys loss
I'm very sorry for the loss :cry:
Our condolences, we will be thinking of you and your family, and sening prayers, and hugs too :) :ghug: :ghug: :ghug: :ghug: :ghug: :ghug:
I am so sorry for you and your family.
How very nice that he passed in his sleep - nice for him and all of the family too. It sounds like he was a great guy and so loved by all of your family. :hearts:
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. It is amazing the impact we make on people around us. He sounds like he was a great guy and will be missed. :ghug:
That's terrible. I'm so sorry for your loss.
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your step dad, what a great man he must have been. My prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. I am here for you.....

Tears,
I'm sorry to hear about your step-dad's passing. It is wonderful he went peacefully in his sleep with a smile on his face We should all be so lucky.
Hugs to you and your family.
Susan
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